Single in Sin City

A good girls survival guide to dating in Las Vegas

7 Signs You’re Dating a Female Player

No I am not a player…derr. I tried serial dating and yeah I could do it but I certainly didn’t like it.  I would never be able to manage the level of manipulation that players need to have. (If you’re a player..I aint judging. It’s a’s just not my style.) In fact, after so many failed attempts at building a relationship, I have fantasized about being this awesome, smooth player that went around flipping her hair and destroying hearts. BUT REALLY…..Who am I kidding? I’m just not wired that way. I have stood back in awe at some of my girlfriend players….SO here’s my list yo!

You are (PROBABLY) Dating a Female Player if……


  1. She never is available to meet your friends or family. (If a girl you are dating doesn’t want to meet family/friends its a BIG red flag. Most of us REALLY want that if we are into you. So if she doesn’t..she’s playing.)
  2. The woman you are dating has early conversations about your income. (Come on fella’s-that’s a sign!)
  3. Her fashion sense mirrors reality TV stars. (It’s one thing to be fashionable but if she is DRIVEN by labels…keep your guard up.)
  4. When the woman you are dating drops hints about specific bills. (Man I have NEVER had ANYONE pay ANY bill for me…but I have seen girlfriends do it and get their bills paid and its utterly amazing…um no I’m not jealous or anything…really…)
  5. If the woman you are dating only wants to meet with you at odd hours and at odd spots she’s probably playing you. (I am sorry but it’s most likely because she doesn’t want to be seen with you. Ouchie-I know) 
  6. If a woman you are dating keeps planning and pushing for invites to posh clubs and restaurants you should watch for other player behavior. (The theme here is status. She’s vying for it .)
  7. When the woman you are interested in only responds to your phone calls/texts…she may be playing you. (This one’s tricky. Like the male playing counterpart…a female player will disappear for periods of time and respond when she feels like it. However, a shy or old-fashioned woman may only answer in response to you.)
  8. The best female player will be able to spend very little time with you but make you feel like she is REALLY into you. (This is the level of manipulation I was referring to. When a woman is capable of it, she vastly outshines the male player-sorry playa it’s the truth!)

Awe man that’s 8 huh? Gosh darn Clark County education! So where’s my moral???? Here goes! Men: Beware of the player that just traps you into the entire game of playing. It’s stupid. Ladies: If all you are looking for is a paycheck…more power to you. I do encourage you to examine what that means in the long run. 1. A loveless relationship that is based entirely on assets and the trade-off might not be worth it (I’m almost positive it won’t be.) 2. The likelihood of being traded in some day once the appeal wears off. If the relationship was shallow to begin with, do not be surprised if this happens. Yes I once dreamed of Richard Gere climbing up my fire escape and declaring his undying love. This is reality…Check Mate!

cartoon golddigger

Until next time….Ciao!


March 27, 2013 - Posted by | Dating Advice, Men Advice, Uncategorized | , , , , , , ,


  1. Ha! Great post. In order to avoid ‘players’ or ‘gold diggers’ I make it very clear to a woman at the onset of a relationship that I have no money, land or assets.

    This may go a very long way to explaining my single status.

    Comment by Project Southsea | March 28, 2013 | Reply

    • Hahahaa! We all have to weed through junk before we find something of value! You don’t want a gold digger anyways 🙂

      Comment by datinginvegas | March 28, 2013 | Reply

  2. NO we don’t… I do have a question though… What has a women or man been through to get to that stage? What would be the root cause? What was it like growing up? This is a repeated behavior that is taught is it not? How alone must this feel to be seeking something entirely outside you to feel something for only a moment that will escape as soon as it happens… This is enlightening but truly sad.. You can’t save someone who is running from themselves all the time can you?

    Comment by Clark Kent | March 29, 2013 | Reply

    • No you sure can’t. I discovered the hard way that you really can’t fix others…period. Thank you for reading!!!

      Comment by datinginvegas | March 29, 2013 | Reply

      • Being conscious of such behavior is a first step in the right direction… I feel you did so here in this post. Bravo my friend!

        Comment by Clark Kent | March 29, 2013

    • The only lonely part about it is that a lot of the guys that say they are your friend, are only your friend because they are waiting to be more, it’s a lonely thought but then you find someone new to distract you from it.

      Comment by Thorned Rose | May 25, 2014 | Reply

  3. Hhaha funny

    Comment by BubbleOnFire | April 18, 2014 | Reply

  4. I’m unsure if this is typical for all female players in America but speaking as a pretty succesfull English playerette, what you have discribed is a gold digger and nothing more. I have no interest in the contence of mens wallets and blokes that try to flash there cash at me, repulse me. I’m a stronge independant woman and no man can buy his way into my bed.

    Comment by Thorned Rose | May 25, 2014 | Reply

    • I have found that players play for a reason…money attention, the game itself…..I am so intrigued that you call yourself a player. What makes you call yourself one?

      Comment by datinginvegas | May 28, 2014 | Reply

    • That’s what I thought. Most players don’t care about the $$$. It’s about conquering prey lol.

      Comment by jimmy.chook | February 4, 2015 | Reply

  5. 1,7 and 8 is totally me lol. The rest sounds more like a gold digger. Not saying female players don’t entertain the idea of digging.. In my opinion, the #1 sign he/she is a player, is ask them if they ever been in love. If yes, they play for revenge. If no, they are narcissist. For me, it’s a big fat NO 🙂

    Comment by jimmy.chook | February 4, 2015 | Reply

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