Single in Sin City

A good girls survival guide to dating in Las Vegas

What Do You Attract??

I know I’ve written about my affinity for bad boys. MMMMHMMMM I love me a bad boy. However, I don’t WANT to want a bad boy…oh no! I married one of the baddest-it stops being fun I promise. Now, he’s gone tragically. That means I’m left-as usual-to hold all the pieces. BUT…I’m straying off topic.

If you dismiss the fact the other man I loved was completely different, the only other guy that caught my interest and qualified as more than “meh” was a mystery dude who I am pretty sure is shacking with a woman. (I kinda really liked him for some reason. Gosh I’m a dumb ass ) So I took a poll of all the guys I’ve dated and…well scratch that. I took a poll of all the guys that I have dated RECENTLY and had chemistry with and the answer is surprising…

  • Out of the last 5 guys I’ve dated and thought..hmmm maybe (I’m not a serial dater anymore) 4 ..yes I said 4..have been in law enforcement

Police Officer

  1. Detective
  2. US Marshall
  3. Gang Unit
  4. Detective
  • The remaining guy, I’m pretty sure was a thug. Yeah I’m almost positive. Why you ask? Well…he drove a Mercedes, always had a huge stack of 100’s, wore very nice jewelry and his job was non-existent. Derr. He WAS nice though and had an excellent vocabulary. (Um yeah that kinda matters to me.)

This wouldn’t have even been worth posting about if I hadn’t just had another Police Officer ask me out. One of my girlfriends finally pulled me aside and said, “Sara you need to ask yourself why thugs and police officers ask you out all the time.” hmmmm…I don’t know! I can be in my church clothes

and this guy will hit me up… Blinging grill

Seriously, I LOVE Nelly but get that crap out of your mouth!

*******DISCLAIMER******* I love men in uniform and totally respect law enforcement so I don’t mind dating them. Also, I already admitted to liking bad boys. So I am not judging either groups.

What I would like to see is some variety! In conclusion, I am examining what type of energy I am putting out there. Also, I am going to be more open to different types of men.  I wish I could say I have some specific advice but I don’t. I DO have a moral. Are you only attracting or dating one specific type of person? Is it working?  If it’s not, maybe you should try to explore. Just a thought my peeps….

Until next time….Ciao!


March 7, 2013 - Posted by | Dating Advice, Uncategorized | , , , , ,


  1. Maybe next time go for someone who is a mixture of the two. A corrupt policeman perhaps?

    Comment by Project Southsea | March 8, 2013 | Reply

    • Hahahahaa – No I couldn’t do that! I’m thinking an Engineer or something.

      Comment by datinginvegas | March 8, 2013 | Reply

      • Yes! Go for an engineer! We need loving too! 😉

        Comment by New Single Guy | March 9, 2013

  2. Hah, the men I date are white and nerdy with varying degrees of physical fitness. (The more the better, but I know I can’t have everything.) I once said to my roommate, “The next time I try to date an engineer, you have to stop me, okay?” She paused, then responded, “Well,then, you have to stop me from dating anymore assholes.” I’m trying to get me some sort of doctor at this point. Bring me the 6-figure salary! (Kidding…mostly.)

    Comment by fishingforbicycles | March 12, 2013 | Reply

  3. Yes, law enforcement types are hard to turn away. They’re like the good “bad boys” … right? They’ll kick someone’s ass but it’s all for the greater good? Proecting society and all that … I think the trick is finding the bad boy wiithin the right genre. You know? The banker thug. The badass doctor. The guy with the right career and just enough of the wrong attitude. 🙂

    Comment by yourmasterdater | March 18, 2013 | Reply

    • Mmmmhmmm You got that right! I need a banker thug! lol

      Comment by datinginvegas | March 18, 2013 | Reply

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